"If you’re even considering the course, I’d just say stop wasting energy thinking about it and just take the plunge. I spent the last 5 months working through me and it’s the best investment in anything I’ve ever done, physically, mentally or educationally."
😊Hearing the words of guys who attend my events or join the #SPM Coaching program is what it's all about - these words reflect what they feel, which is the No. 1 👌🏼
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Remember, women are not always docile and men are not always abusers. We must break this mentality so that we can help male victims of #domesticviolence rather than shaming them, as well as empowering women AND taking their threats seriously. Nobody is too weak to cause emotional or physical harm in a relationship. It's time we break the cycle. #victimblaming#masculinity#femininity#genderequality#feminism
Some reflections after the buzz of today's Meetup has calmed.
A bunch of new faces & a group of returning ones. Varied ages, backgrounds & occupations and even a Doctor today. All navigating through their own types of struggle in life, from mental illness, becoming dads, being dads, being husbands, dealing with past & current traumas, all while still being "successful" and the man the commercial world tells them they should be.
I love hearing each and every story when people open up naturally, when you can tell they feel comfortable, usually after I tell a snippet of my story one on one. It's like the barriers smash down, and it's all okay.
Each story so different from the next but sometimes the root of the challenges are so similar (and I can assure you we still manage to weave in conversations now & then about sport like "real men"). I've never been comfortable being the "face" of anything. Which is probably why my favourite part is sitting back towards the end to leave the guys to it when I clean up. When I leave after 1pm and people are still chatting in the sun & connecting, that's the why.
"Tattooing is an art," Héctor Suazo, 36, explained to me while showing me his first tattoo, a phoenix the length of his arm. Héctor is from La Ceiba, Honduras, and he ended up in a migrant shelter in Juárez yesterday while trying to cross to the US. When I asked if he had any more tattoos, he said he had one on his back. Of course, I asked to see it. "The first time I crossed the border into Mexico going towards the US, my grandmother died. I didn't know because I didn't have any way to communicate with my family. This tattoo is for her. I had never told anyone that story," said Héctor. #mexico#juarez#migrant#shelter#tattoo#mural#family#honduras#men#masculinity#roses
For my couples.. when was the last time you both connected without words? I talked about this during my workshop, Sex Magic, at @pleasurechestch. How about connecting with each other through the #yabyum position? One of the most common Tantra practices, also known as “Father Mother”. Yab Yum leans on the energetic gender polarity of masculinity and femininity as it manifests in sexual union (intercourse.) Sitting in this position together, they represent Shiva and Shakti, the complementary divine masculine and feminine energies. This positions allows for our energetic and emotional selves, our “compassionate hearts,” to express themselves, thereby cultivating integration in ourselves, and a connection with each other. #yabyum#sexpert#sexmagic#frostedpleasure#manifest#feminity#masculinity#heartheart#spirittospirit#connection#intimacy#couples
When it comes to relationship dynamics there's many a time when we F things up for no apparent reason.
It could be a self destruct or self sabotage program.
It could be ego and the need of having to be right from another unconscious program.
Sometimes it can be as basic as being a man and a woman.
We often forget we are very different in our coping programs.
One wants to fix things while the other wants to be heard.
One is singularly focused while the other is multidimensional at any given time.
Open your awareness to how you function when things go sideways.
Take the time to learn about why you show up the way you do.
It's imperative that we see with our hearts the hurt we may be causing on an unconscious level.
In truth, the hurt is within you.
You are her man...Be her champion.