My #transformationtuesday . Im 5ft8in so im not a small girl by any means but the weight difference speaks volumes for how irrelevant the scale can be to the average female.
Looking back, it hasnt felt like a struggle at all, just a process. You make mistakes, you recover.. get stronger, get smarter (one can dream...) you Learn, you avoid reoffending.
When i started lifting i never for one second thought "Yeah i want to be a tank, weighing in more than the average male". Not fit that.