When I started my coaching and mentoring business because I was sick and tired of living in a box that I didn't fit in.
But I struggled because I couldn't see the path before me and was incredibly unclear on where I wanted my life to go. I knew I wanted to help people and I also knew I am really good at what I do but I was spinning my wheels all day long.
And here's how the switch happened for me:
I wrote out my vision for one year and what I would like to be, do and have in that time span, and by the time I was done writing out my vision, I was able to clearly see what I wanted to create not only in my personal life but in my business.
My tip to you, if you are struggling with what to do every day, write out your vision and where you like to be a year from now!
It's like a new fashion that we get bombarded with positivity everyday.
And I'm guilty too of it.
For many years the positivity thing has been my surviving mechanism. It helped me to escape/ deny / push under the carpet all the feelings we consider as negative.
But the thing is: no matter how hard you try to be positive you can't really be yourself, enjoy life and live your passion if you don't allow / admit also the negative/ unwanted feelings. They are there for a reason. They need to be validated, and denying them doesn't help - have I do. Life consist both of light and shadow, good and bad - and we can only expand when we recognize/ admit it.
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🎶"When you smile, the whole world stops as stares for awhile, because you are AMAZING just the way you are "🎶
Believe in yourself, feel comfortable in your skin! If it means taking a few fun pictures of yourself... DO IT.
Learn to trust that you are amazing just the way you are. It's so easy to scroll through social media feeds and play the comparison game.
There is nothing to compare! If you see something you like or say "I wish I could do that" go out and do that and be thankful for the inspiration versus a compassion game that brings only yourself down or drudges up that horrible emotion... of jealousy! ▪️
I know your amazingly beautiful so go be amazingly beautiful today! .
Dre 💋 xo xo
So many wars have been started because people like to change others.
We can change world by changing ourselves. By walking our talk. By being kind to oneself. By appreciating beauty. By standing up for your truth. By embracing your uniqueness, and by enjoying being in your body.
On June 16, 1963, a 26 year-old Russian named Valentina Vladimirovna Tereshkova piloted the Vostok 6 spacecraft for a total of 48 orbits around Earth. Returning after 71 hours, she’d spent more time in space than all U.S. astronauts combined up to that date. #badassery#womenareawesome